October 13, 2017

"The IR Theory" (We R a 10) (short essay)


Over the next week or so will review some articles written for a business/legal newspaper in upstate NY. Everything you find in these essays/articles you’ll recognize but they’ll be good for passing on to others – business associates and family. I’ll be starting with Part III – the IR Theory – all together there were some 33 articles – which I’ll not address all of them – but maybe four or five. Each of these were a column so they’ll be short and hopefully to the point. When written I was an associate with Paul Meyers of SMI, Inc. and had his full permission for much of what is found in the ideas – and also Hugh Pinnock of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The purpose of these articles was never to make a profit (which I didn’t smile) but to help others to have new outlooks in their personal, physical, ethical, family, financial and social lives. Hopefully even as those in the past have enjoyed and learned you will too.  c/ork

Part III - the IR Theory
The IR Theory was introduced a number of years ago and is pretty simple; the I stand for you as an Individual and the R represents the current Role you are playing. So we have the Individual Role Theory. There are two important concepts to the IR Theory; the first is as an Individual you are always a '10' since that is man's measurement of perfection. The second, is that a woman is better at being a woman, than a man is at being a man. Even the scriptures allude to this, see Proverbs last chapter - 10-31.

With the IR theory in our lives we know that then as an individual we are okay. Heavenly Father didn't make any junk, is often stated, Father Flanigan is often quoted as, "There is no such thing as a bad boy." Two things I've learned in my life time, is that first, we are all born with winner behavior; and second, all loser behavior is adoptive. The medical world has discovered this over and over especially with babies born with no human chance of success at survival yet they not only live they survive and thrive, grow and blossom. It isn't until later when they get more exposed to man and his brilliance (said critically) that they learn about such things as; luck, poor choices, too bad you just missed the cut, complaining, blaming, whining, and more importantly cheating to get ahead. Therefore those who become quitters, losers, or other such labels as our society have found these behavior through adoption. Losers love to blame others for their problems (this is another subject altogether - and will be written separately).

Now the second part of the theory deals with roles we play. Women are better wives than men are husbands, this is mostly due to the some of the unchanging requirements and the constant flux of what society expects from a man. A friend of mine who passed away used to like to say, "Wives get being wives under control in about 10-15 years, while husbands take about 2.5 million years and that is why Father gives us forever together." But there are lots and lots of roles we play every day. Some are given to be bosses, others just to drive a car, a child to be a student, anyone who makes a meal is playing the role of a cook, and so forth; in most of these we are nowhere near being a ten. In new roles, facing a Ryan Nolan fast ball for example most of us are probably a .00000000000000000002; while a Ted William would have been a 3 or 4. The problem is we tend to look at any role we are playing and associate with the who we are, and stop thinking of ourselves as tens.

The importance of the IR Theory is to keep separate the two parts, keep intact the ten individual given you by royal birthright from a loving Heavenly Father; and try to improve at the roles we are given to play in each day. William Shakespeare said, "All the worlds a stage and the people are the actors upon it." This is true as far as he goes, but with moral agency we can decide the roles and from part two the effort to put forth. What was not said, was there were some good actors and some poor ones. We then need to learn between the Individual and the Role. Where most get in trouble is they start thinking the role is more important than the Individual. Most of us will never make our roles to the level of 10, on given days we will be close, but the individual is always a ten. 

“We R a 10”

cji
10/14/17

Born into mortal probation
having Heavenly Father’s
genes and blessings all
small dependent noisy
wanting hugs/warmth
as infants we R a 10
thus throughout our life
we remain so in polishing
this is the who soul/matter
always to be eternal
something many forget
adopting behavior askew
living their mortal probation!




Copyright © 2017 – cji

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