June 30, 2011

HT'ing and VT'ing Messages







Brother, I’m Committed
By President Dieter F. Uchtdorf
Second Counselor in the First Presidency

09687_000_003Two young brothers stood atop a small cliff that overlooked the pristine waters of a blue lake. This was a popular diving spot, and the brothers had often talked about making the jump—something they had seen others do.
Although they both wanted to make the jump, neither one wanted to be first. The height of the cliff wasn’t that great, but to the two young boys, it seemed the distance increased whenever they started to lean forward—and their courage was fading fast.
Finally, one brother put one foot at the edge of the cliff and moved decisively forward. At that moment his brother whispered, “Maybe we should wait until next summer.”
The first brother’s momentum, however, was already pulling him forward. “Brother,” he responded, “I’m committed!”
He splashed into the water and surfaced quickly with a victorious shout. The second brother followed instantly. Afterward, they both laughed about the first boy’s final words before plunging into the water: “Brother, I’m committed.”
Commitment is a little like diving into the water. Either you are committed or you are not. Either you are moving forward or you are standing still. There’s no halfway. We all face moments of decision that change the rest of our lives. As members of the Church, we must ask ourselves, “Will I dive in or just stand at the edge? Will I step forward or merely test the temperature of the water with my toes?”
Some sins are committed because we do wrong; other sins are committed because we do nothing. Being only sort of committed to the gospel can lead to frustration, unhappiness, and guilt. This should not apply to us because we are a covenant people. We make covenants with the Lord when we are baptized and when we enter the house of the Lord. Men make covenants with the Lord when they are ordained to the priesthood. Nothing can be more important than keeping a commitment we have made with the Lord. Let us remember the reply of Rachel and Leah to Jacob in the Old Testament. It was simple and straightforward and showed their commitment: “Whatsoever God hath said unto thee, do” (Genesis 31:16).
Those who are only sort of committed may expect to only sort of receive the blessings of testimony, joy, and peace. The windows of heaven might only be sort of open to them. Wouldn’t it be foolish to think, “I’ll commit myself 50 percent now, but when Christ appears at the Second Coming, I’ll commit myself 100 percent”?
Commitment to our covenants with the Lord is a fruit of our conversion. Commitment to our Savior and His Church builds our character and strengthens our spirit so that when we meet Christ, He will embrace us and say, “Well done, thou good and faithful servant” (Matthew 25:21).
There is a difference between intention and action. Those who only intend to commit may find excuses at every turn. Those who truly commit face their challenges squarely and say to themselves, “Yes, that would be a very good reason to delay, but I made covenants, and so I will do what I have committed to do.” They search the scriptures and earnestly seek the guidance of their Father in Heaven. They accept and magnify their Church callings. They attend their meetings. They do their home or visiting teaching.
A German proverb says, “Promises are like the full moon. If they are not kept at once, they diminish day by day.” As members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we have committed to walk in the path of discipleship. We have committed to follow the example of our Savior. Imagine how the world will be blessed and transformed for good when all members of the Lord’s Church live up to their true potential—converted in the depth of their souls and committed to building the kingdom of God.
In some way, each of us stands at a decision point overlooking the water. It is my prayer that we will have faith, move forward, face our fears and doubts with courage, and say to ourselves, “I’m committed!”
Teaching from This Message
“One way to help learners understand gospel principles is to have them draw pictures. Drawing allows them to explore and express their understanding and feelings of gospel stories and principles” (Teaching, No Greater Call [1999], 166). Consider reading the article, discussing the principle of commitment to the gospel, and then asking those who wish to do so to draw a picture of a gospel activity that demonstrates commitment. Younger children may need suggestions about what to draw.
Youth
All I Can Give
By Alyssa Hansen
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I was stressing about how I was going to pay for the things I wanted to do over the summer: classes, workshops, summer camps, and so on. I thought I was going to cry. Then I remembered all the things I’d been taught about having trust and faith in the Lord. I decided to put the situation in the Lord’s hands and trust that if it was His will, He would provide a way.
Not too long after that, my mom found an uncashed check from a job I had had earlier that year, and the very next day I got a small cash prize in the mail for taking second place in a competition. This was a great testimony to me that God does live, that He loves and cares about me and will provide.
I was so filled with gratitude and love for my Heavenly Father and Savior. I felt as if I might burst! I longed to show how thankful I was, to praise God the best that I could, and to share that feeling. Others have done this by composing a song, writing a poem, or painting a picture, but I felt inadequate to do any of those things. I realized the only thing I could give that would be adequate praise would be my life—to be “an example of the believers” (1 Timothy 4:12), to give my life to Christ. That’s all He asks, and that’s all I can give.
Children
Are You Committed?
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When we have promised to follow Jesus Christ, we do what is right without making excuses.
These four children are joining their Primary class to clean up a local playground. Which of the children does not look committed? Why not? How are the others showing their commitment?
Circle five items that would help this child participate in the service activity with the others. Can you find a rake, paintbrush, ladder, bucket, and shovel?


“Doing, Not Talking”

cji
7/1/11

Silently working today
keeping up the pace
time without measure
doing, not talking;

forward always walking
in service to treasure
evoling in sacred space
doing Father’s will I pray!

Copyright © 2011 – cji


Come to the Temple and Claim Your Blessings
09687_000_006Sisters, we are most blessed. The Savior stands at the head of this Church. We are led by living prophets. We have the holy scriptures. And we have many holy temples throughout the world where we can obtain the ordinances necessary to help us return to our Heavenly Father.
We go first to the temple for ourselves. “The primary purpose of the temple,” explained Elder Robert D. Hales of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “is to provide the ordinances necessary for our exaltation in the celestial kingdom. Temple ordinances guide us to our Savior and give us the blessings that come to us through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Temples are the greatest university of learning known to man, giving us knowledge and wisdom about the Creation of the world. Endowment instructions give guidance as to how we should conduct our lives here in mortality. … The ordinance consists of a series of instructions on how we should live and covenants we make to live righteously by following our Savior.” 1
But our temple service does not end there. President Boyd K. Packer, President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, taught: “Acting as proxy for someone who has gone beyond the veil, you will have reviewed before you the covenants that you have made. You will have reinforced in your mind the great spiritual blessings that are associated with the house of the Lord. … In the covenants and ordinances center the blessings that you may claim in the holy temple.” 2
Come to the temple and then come again. Making and keeping temple covenants will keep us on course to the greatest of all blessings—eternal life.
Barbara Thompson, second counselor in the Relief Society general presidency.
From the Scriptures
Isaiah 2:3; 1 Corinthians 11:11; Revelation 7:13–15; Doctrine and Covenants 109
From Our History
The Prophet Joseph often spoke to Relief Society sisters at their meetings. With the Nauvoo Temple under construction, the Prophet instructed the sisters in doctrine, preparing them to receive more knowledge through temple ordinances. In 1842 he said to Mercy Fielding Thompson that the endowment “will bring you out of darkness into marvelous light.” 3
An estimated 6,000 Latter-day Saints received temple ordinances before the exodus from Nauvoo. President Brigham Young (1801–77) said, “Such has been the anxiety manifested by the saints to receive the ordinances [of the temple], and such the anxiety on our part to administer to them, that I have given myself up entirely to the work of the Lord in the Temple night and day, not taking more than four hours sleep, upon an average, per day, and going home but once a week.” 4 The strength and power of temple covenants fortified the Saints as they left their city and temple for a journey into the unknown.
What Can I Do?
1. What experience will I share to strengthen those I visit in their determination to “come to the temple”?
2. How can I personally claim the blessings of the temple?





“A Temple Blessing”

cji
7/1/11

Each time to go forth
service to/for others
sisters and brothers
forever thenceforth;

Enjoining eternity all
truths eternal stressing
in Father’s sacred hall
is a Temple blessing!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 29, 2011

“Tomorrow’s Wish”



“Tomorrow’s Wish”

cji
6/30/11

Awakening always into today
remembering yesterday wishes
thinking if only on the morrow
then forgetting in the today;

Wanting to forget the past
yet not letting it ever go away
even if only a tomorrow’s wish
the Summer never to last!


Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 28, 2011

“Weak People”



“Weak People”

cji
6/29/11

Finding flaws in others
seeking escape always
never able to negotiate
never able to decide
thinking ‘maybe’
thinking ‘I need time’
thinking within holes
acquiescing in all things
the sheep to fleece
the wolves to devour
unable to be saved
unwilling to discern
seeking escape always
finding flaws in others!


Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 27, 2011

“Flashback”


“Flashback”

cji
6/28/11

Light rains falling
still winds to chill
sweating in profusion
hushed silence
muffled screams
dense jungles
blistering desert
sands chocking
brilliant sun burning
acid killing foliage
men stumbling
blindness in storms
friends lost
tossing – turning
still winds to chill
light rains falling!

Copyright © 2011 – cji


June 26, 2011

“Fathers of Fathers”



“Fathers of Fathers”

cji
6/26/11

Freedom requires a cost
choices made by some
many families are lost
with many more to come;

Fathers of fathers too
giving their life’s each
the next generation true
freedom’s lesson to teach;

History is marked often
orphans and widows left
many hearts to soften
opening ears of the deft;

Fathers of fathers too
sacrificing of their all
freedom’s cost in queue
standing one and all tall!
Copyright © 2011 – cji

“Feigned Emotions”



“Feigned Emotions”

cji
6/27/11

Fighting back tears
often in laughter
feigned emotions
sadness of face
sackcloth and ashes
outward profusions
faking all the time
beguiling to chase
building untruth
living in unbelief!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 25, 2011

“Fathers of Fathers”



“Fathers of Fathers”

cji
6/26/11

Freedom requires a cost
choices made by some
many families are lost
with many more to come;

Fathers of fathers too
giving their life’s each
the next generation true
freedom’s lesson to teach;

History is marked often
orphans and widows left
many hearts to soften
opening ears of the deft;

Fathers of fathers too
sacrificing of their all
freedom’s cost in queue
standing one and all tall!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

“Protections”

“Protections”

cji
6/26/11

The armor of God
head to the feet
never-ending to be
purity, honor, truth
honesty, service
humility, love
renewed all
on a Sabbath Day
with the Sacrament
protections all
from Father
renewing
covenants
forever…!


Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 24, 2011

“Learn to Live”

“Learn to Live”

cji
6/25/11

Awakening each day
sometimes in the night
stretching out our minds
searching for the new
living to learn more
while discerning truth
teaching by example
doing that which’s right
able to learn to live
thus enriching a self
in the service of all
sometimes in the night
awakening each day!



Copyright © 2011 – cji

“Doubled”

“Doubled”

cji
6/24/11

Times drifting away
unmeasured today
lost counting alone
skipping a stone
wondering of why
once more to try
mixtures of love
twice over to shove
seeking why troubled
life’s strife’s doubled;

Man’s time measured
Father’s treasured
giving away kindness
shutting off darkness
finding of the light
discerning new sight
in knowledge to grow
truth’s eternal to know
no longer so troubled
blessings now doubled!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 23, 2011

“Radiating Spirits”



“Radiating Spirits”

cji
6/23/11

All around filling the air
radiating spirits are felt
sweet, pure and very fair
as at alters when knelt;

Hushed are the voices
pure white clothing worn
a Father above rejoices
eternal families reborn;

Radiating spirits on high
emotions to feel – real
Temple workers comply
with covenants to seal!


Copyright © 2011 – cji

“A Joyful Spirit”

“A Joyful Spirit”
(Emily)

cji
6/22/11

Reaching out to touch
able to enjoin a smile
intangibles to engage
a joyful spirit so found
in love forever bound
cheering up each today
happy action to portray
both feet on the ground
in Father’s work sound
turning life’s new page
always without guile
a child’s hand to clutch!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 22, 2011

“Refection”

“Refection”

cji
6/23/11

Went to the spring
clear clean water
seeking nourishment
yet still left thirsty;

Went to the mountain
clear clean air
seeking renewal
yet gasping for breath;

Went to the kitchen
clear clean food
seeking nourishment
yet still unfulfilled;

Went to my knees
clear clean prayer
seeking renewal
finding all I sought!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 20, 2011

“Credulous”

“Credulous”

cji
6/21/11

So much wanting
willing to believe
making not sense
matters little if all
grasping straws oft
rhetoric good as any
making fools many
dim lighted thoughts
without any reason
just a desire to please
accepting logismoi
as actual truth
living inside dark
ignoring the light!


Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 19, 2011

“A Home as A Temple”




Building Your Eternal Home (October 1999)
By President Thomas S. Monson
First Counselor in the First Presidency

99990_000_003When Jesus walked the dusty pathways of towns and villages that we now reverently call the Holy Land and taught His disciples by beautiful Galilee, He often spoke in parables, in language the people understood best. Frequently, He referred to home building in relationship to the lives of those who listened.
He declared, “Every … house divided against itself shall not stand.” 1 Later He cautioned, “Behold, mine house is a house of order, … and not a house of confusion.” 2
In a revelation given through the Prophet Joseph Smith at Kirtland, Ohio, December 27, 1832, the Master counseled, “Organize yourselves; prepare every needful thing; and establish a house, even a house of prayer, a house of fasting, a house of faith, a house of learning, a house of glory, a house of order, a house of God.” 3
Where could any of us locate a more suitable blueprint whereby we could wisely and properly build a house to personally occupy throughout eternity? Such a house would meet the building code outlined in Matthew—even a house built “upon a rock,” 4 a house capable of withstanding the rains of adversity, the floods of opposition, and the winds of doubt everywhere present in our challenging world.
Some might question: “But that revelation was to provide guidance for the construction of a temple. Is it relevant today?”
I would respond: “Did not the Apostle Paul declare, ‘Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?’” 5
Perhaps if we consider these architectural guidelines on an individual basis, we can more readily appreciate this divine counsel from the Master Builder, the Creator of the world, our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Our inspired blueprint first cautions that our house should be a house of prayer. The Master taught:
“And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray … , that they may be seen of men. …
“But thou, when thou prayest, … pray to thy Father which is in secret. …
“Use not vain repetitions. …
“After this manner … pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.
“Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.
“Give us this day our daily bread.
“And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
“And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever.” 6
This element of our blueprint can be taught to children when they are yet young. When our oldest son was about three, he would kneel with his mother and me in our evening prayer. I was serving as the bishop of the ward at the time, and a lovely lady in the ward, Margaret Lister, lay perilously ill with cancer. Each night we would pray for Sister Lister. One evening our tiny son offered the prayer and confused the words of the prayer with a story from a nursery book. He began: “Heavenly Father, please bless Sister Lister, Henny Penny, Chicken Licken, Turkey Lurkey, and all the little folks.” We held back the smiles that evening. Later we were humbled as Margaret Lister sustained a complete recovery. We do not demean the prayer of a child. After all, our children have more recently been with our Heavenly Father than have we.
Let our house be a house of prayer.
Our house should also be a house of fasting. This portion of the blueprint is personified in the account found in Isaiah titled the “True Fast.” “Is not this the fast that I have chosen? …
“To deal thy bread to the hungry, and that thou bring the poor that are cast out to thy house? when thou seest the naked, that thou cover him; and that thou hide not thyself from thine own flesh?”
The reward is then announced: “Then shall thy light break forth as the morning, and thine health shall spring forth speedily: and thy righteousness shall go before thee; the glory of the Lord shall be thy rereward.
“Then shalt thou call, and the Lord shall answer; thou shalt cry, and he shall say, Here I am. …
“And if thou draw out thy soul to the hungry, and satisfy the afflicted soul; then shall thy light rise in obscurity, and thy darkness be as the noonday:
“And the Lord shall guide thee continually, and satisfy thy soul in drought, … and thou shalt be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters fail not.” 7
Let our house be a house of fasting.
Our house is to be a house of faith. James recorded:
“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
“But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.” 8
A practical application of such abiding faith is found in the spirit of Nephi and his stirring declaration: “I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded.” 9 He did not waver; he believed. Is there a counterpart application even today?
Some years ago I accompanied President Hugh B. Brown (1883–1975), a counselor in the First Presidency, on a tour of the Samoan Mission. The members and missionaries in American Samoa had advised us that a severe drought had imperiled their water supply to the point that our chapels and our school would of necessity be closed if rain did not soon fall. They asked us to unite our faith with theirs.
Signs of the drought were everywhere as we left the airport at Pago Pago and journeyed to the school at Mapusaga. The sun was shining brightly; not a cloud appeared in the azure blue sky. The members rejoiced as the meeting began. He who offered the opening prayer thanked our Heavenly Father for our safe arrival, knowing that we would somehow bring the desired rainfall. As President Brown rose to speak, the sun was soon shaded by gathering clouds. Then we heard the clap of thunder and saw the flash of lightning. The heavens opened. The rains fell. The drought ended.
Later at the airport, as we prepared for the short flight to Western Samoa, the pilot of the small plane said to the ground crew: “This is the most unusual weather pattern I have ever seen. Not a cloud is in the sky except over the Mormon school at Mapusaga. I don’t understand it!”
President Brown said to me: “Here’s your opportunity. Go help him understand.” I did so.
Our house surely is a house of faith.
Let our house be a house of learning. Said the Lord, “Seek ye out of the best books words of wisdom; seek learning, even by study and also by faith.” 10 He counseled, “Come … learn of me … and ye shall find rest unto your souls.” 11 No other quest for learning promises such a profound reward.
Let our house be a house of learning.
Our house is to be a house of glory. For our house to be such, we need to be square with God, fair with others, and honest with ourselves. One cannot be one person and pretend to be another. Samuel Clemens, better known as Mark Twain, had Huckleberry Finn teach us this vital lesson. Huckleberry Finn is talking:
“It made me shiver. And I about made up my mind to pray; and see if I couldn’t try to quit being the kind of a boy I was, and be better. So I kneeled down. But the words wouldn’t come. Why wouldn’t they? It warn’t no use to try and hide it from Him. … I knowed very well why they wouldn’t come. … It was because I was playing double. I was letting on to give up sin, but away inside of me I was holding on to the biggest one of all. I was trying to make my mouth say I would do the right thing and the clean thing, … but deep down in me I knowed it was a lie, and He knowed it. You can’t pray a lie—I found that out.” 12
Someone once philosophized, “Consistency, thou art a jewel.” 13 By being consistently good, we can ensure a house of glory.
Our house is to be a house of order. “To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven,” advised Ecclesiastes, the Preacher. 14 Such is true in our lives. Let us provide time for family, time for work, time for study, time for service, time for recreation, time for self—but above all, time for Christ.
Then our house will be a house of order.
Finally, let our house be a house of God. Clean thoughts, noble purpose, a willing heart, and ready hands are all features of a house of God. He does not leave us to struggle alone but stands ever ready to help.
Some years ago, I was afforded the privilege to serve as a mission president and became intimately acquainted with more than 400 missionaries. We had one young missionary who was very ill. After weeks of hospitalization, as the doctor prepared to undertake extremely serious and complicated surgery, he asked that we send for the missionary’s mother and father. He advised there was a possibility the patient would not survive the surgery.
The parents came. Late one evening, the father and I entered a hospital room in Toronto, Canada, placed our hands upon the head of the young missionary, and gave him a blessing. What happened following that blessing was a testimony to me.
The missionary was in a six-bed ward in the hospital. The other beds were occupied by five men with a variety of illnesses. The morning of his surgery, the missionary’s bed was empty. The nurse came into the room with the breakfast these men normally ate. She took a tray over to the patient in bed number one and said, “Fried eggs this morning, and I have an extra portion for you!”
The occupant of bed number one had suffered an accident with his lawn mower. Other than an injured toe, he was well physically. He said to the nurse, “I’ll not be eating this morning.”
“All right, we shall give your breakfast to your partner in bed number two.”
As she approached that patient, he said, “I think I’ll not eat this morning.”
Each of the five men declined breakfast. The young lady exclaimed, “Other mornings you eat us out of house and home, and today not one of you wants to eat! What is the reason?”
Then the man who occupied bed number six answered: “You see, bed number three is empty. Our friend is in the operating room under the surgeon’s hands. He needs all the help he can get. He is a missionary for his church, and while we have been patients in this ward, he has talked to us about the principles of his church—principles of prayer, of faith, of fasting wherein we call upon the Lord for blessings.” He continued, “We don’t know much about the Mormon Church, but we have learned a great deal about our friend; and we are fasting for him today.”
The operation was a success. When I attempted to pay the doctor, he countered, “Why, it would be dishonest for me to accept a fee. I have never before performed surgery when my hands seemed to be guided by a Power which was other than my own. No,” he said, “I wouldn’t take a fee for the surgery which Someone on high literally helped me to perform.”
Such is the house of God.
This, then, is our building project. We are master builders of eternal houses, even temples of God. 15
“Organize yourselves; prepare every needful thing; and establish a house, even a house of prayer, a house of fasting, a house of faith, a house of learning, a house of glory, a house of order, a house of God.” 16
Then the Lord, even our building inspector, may say to us, as He said when He appeared to Solomon, a builder of another day: “I have hallowed this house, which thou hast built, to put my name there for ever; and mine eyes and mine heart shall be there perpetually.” 17
May we follow this divinely provided blueprint. May we be successful builders of our eternal homes.
Ideas for Home Teachers
1. 1.
The Lord Jesus Christ likened building our own righteous lives to building a house—particularly a house of God, a temple.
2. 2.
He has counseled us to make our own eternal homes:
o a house of prayer.
o a house of fasting.
o a house of faith.
o a house of learning.
o a house of glory.
o a house of order.
o a house of God.
3. 3.
If we do so, the Lord may say to us, “I have hallowed this house, which thou hast built, to put my name there for ever; and mine eyes and mine heart shall be there perpetually” (1 Kgs. 9:3).
Notes
1. Matt. 12:25.
2. D&C 132:8.
3. D&C 88:119.
4. Matt. 7:24.
5. 1 Cor. 3:16.
6. Matt. 6:5–7, 9–13.
7. Isa. 58:6–11.
8. James 1:5–6.
9. 1 Ne. 3:7.
10. D&C 88:118.
11. Matt. 11:28–29.
12. Adventures of Huckleberry Finn (1985), 306–7; emphasis added.
13. The Home Book of Quotations, selected by Burton Stevenson (1934), 304.
14. Eccl. 3:1.
15. See 1 Cor. 3:16.
16. D&C 88:119.
17. 1 Kgs. 9:3.

Joyce’s Sacrament talk: 19 June 2011 “Strengthen our Families”

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints emphasizes the importance of families and declares that “no other success can compensate for failure in the home.”
Topic: Strengthen our families and build family bridges of love at home Definition of strengthen=brace, bolster, or make stronger
We believe that happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ, and that successful marriages and families are established and maintained on the principles of Faith, Prayer, Repentance, Forgiveness, Respect, Love, Compassion, Work, and wholesome activities.( The Family: A Proclamation to the World, Ensign magazine, November 2010, p.129.)
At risk are our children ages 3-16 years–our Primary age children as well as our precious youth.
How can we strengthen our families and be better builders of love? Spencer W. Kimball wrote, "Therefore I Was Taught," Ensign, Jan. 1982, p. 3).First of all, preparation for marriage and family begins in parenting in the home. We need to follow rules for building better family relationships by first be pleasing to God, free from hypocrisy, full of love and grace, full of wisdom and discernment. In other words, to study and live the principles of truth, with special attention to nurturing love and harmony within family circles.
1. How do we strengthen and build love at home as parents in the home? Joseph Smith was reared in a family which parents and children loved and respected one another. We can have this same family manner to emulate. “Lucy Mack Smith “The sweetest union and happiness pervaded our house. Neither jar nor discord disturbed our peace, and tranquility reigned in our midst.
Mormon Parenting, from bestselling authors, who lecture throughout the world on family related topics last week’s newspaper column in Mormon Times section of the Church News: Endemic among children today is a sense of entitlement, which is the opposite of a sense of responsibility. Wants are confused with needs and wherein everyone seems focused on the notion that he/ she deserves what everyone else has. Gone are the days when children expected to have to work for something, even for acclaim. The sea of change in parenting is driven by core cultural value of self- admiration and positive feelings.
Everyone is special; many children have a facebook page. They are famous in their own minds and they think they are entitled not to have limits or boundaries or discipline. And it is us parents, by not saying no and giving them what they demand, who become the ultimate enablers. Not long ago, children knew who the boss was- and it was not them. It was Mom and Dad. Mom and Dad were not your friends, Mom and Dad were parents.
As our lives get busier and busier, as both parents work, and as the disconnect grows greater between our priorities we give our children things instead of time, spoiling them as we add fuel to the entitlement fire. We give our children too much and demand too little.
How wide spread is this sense of entitlement among children? Widespead enough that every parent seems to have a close to home example of it.
Here are only two examples. Recently a father came home after a week long business trip and was greeted by his 9 year old with a big hug. That night at dinner after catch up session about what happened at home while the father was gone, my child, obviously planned quite carefully, said to his parent, ”I have to have a credit card or a cell phone. At least, one of them.”
Another child saw something he/she really wanted while the family was shopping. “No; I do not want to spend money on that,” was the reply from the parent. The child frowned, growled at the parent and said, ‘Fine, then you just give me the money and I’ll pay for it. Or, put it on my credit card.”
Next, let’s look at roles for parents- President Spencer W. Kimball said, “Most people feel that sex role, money, and children are the major tribulations in family and marriage; they are NOT! The three main problems in marriage / family are selfishness, selfishness, and selfishness – a wanting of the other to change while not changing oneself.” As we strive to improve ourselves and our families, we need to remember that the Lord wants us to have joy and happiness in our lives. Two of Satan's most effective tools are quarrels and discouragement.
Let’s take this family example: the real issue is trivial - by husband and wife- Bob and Celia- with their two children as the order of two sandwiches is placed at the same restaurant counter: one sandwich hot meatball sub and the other cold spicy Italian sub. And the problem is even deeper than the sandwiches- problem lies at the core of character. Bob wants his sandwich separate while Celia tells the sub maker to wrap both subs yet place them in one bag to take out. Arguing issues and their snapping embarrasses everyone around them. This quarrel could continue hours later. The real cause of this quarrel about nothing is sinful pride and the entire cure is repentance. Two things we as LDS can do perfectly are to repent and to forgive (Hugh W. Nibley).
Here is the sad truth about personal pride, which can be overcome by the simple love- assuming the noblest motives for the action of the beloved spouse. Analysis: the solution is not therapy for this couple , but in the sacrament. Quiet repentance of one’s own sinful pride will bring peace and joy. Analyzing a quarrel over nothing, Orson Scott Card, Mormon Times, 4 June 2011, p. 1.
Let your light shine and seek the best- the key for building better personal familyrelationships. Unity in marriage is an important foundation for rearing children successfully. If a husband and wife do not support each other, they greatly weaken their influence with their children. However, if a husband and wife are humble and strive to achieve greater unity, they can teach their children valuable lessons of goodness.
Husbands and wives honor each other by showing love, kindness, and affection. Children honor your parents by expressing gratitude to them and cherishing them throughout your lives. Parents love, support, and pray for their children bring immeasurable blessings into their children’s lives. Teachings of the Presidents of the Church- Joseph Smith.
The Lord's Way
Satan's Way
Love unfeigned—charity, caring for others' welfare despite any wrongdoing.
Physical force—being hostile and unfairly using physical strength.
Acceptance—seeing others in eternal perspective, judging with compassion.
Blame—condemning others' faults without compassion.
Integrity—being honest, a personal commitment to righteousness.
Accusation—provoking guilt, reminding people of their mistakes to punish them and justify oneself.
Persuasion—teaching with compassion, kindly pointing out advantages and disadvantages within situations.
Intimidation—ruling by fear because others are afraid of one's power.
Gentleness—soft, not treating others harshly.
Threat—expressing intent to physically or emotionally harm someone.
Trust—lovingly allowing others to exercise their agency to choose right or wrong and to accept the consequences.
Pride—self-righteously preaching moral truths and condemning others.
Responsibility—acknowledging & assuming your role in any situation including repenting for past wrongdoing.
Self-centeredness—refusing to accept responsibility for your actions.
Meekness—humility & teachable
Haughtiness—being proud & pessimistic.

Here are the values of character we can instill in building our homes of learning development of qualities of character. Let our houses have these rooms filled with these qualities of character:
2. Responsibility- tasks or chores. Simple tasks without constant reminders so the distribution of labor falls equally on all family members within the home. Show responsibility find ways to help each other.
3. Consequences- what happens when you chose to do something- is the agency positive or negative;
4. Respect is showing good manners toward each person, not just those you well know or are like you. Think of the respect word bank: recognize, appreciate, honor, prize, and admire words to use.
5. Manners and courtesy help us get along with each other. Something that is forgotten today- if you bump someone or walk in front of someone, apologize saying excuse me inside or outside your home. We are to be full of selflessness. Gratitude is when you sincerely thank people for the good things they have given you or done for you. Saying thank you creates love and harmony. Thank you someone today for the service. Those simple words: please, thank you, you are welcome are divine.
6. Sharing and take turns. Allowing some to speak by not interrupting. Aesop’s Fables: No kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.
7. Service or helping others without being asked. Uplift and serve others.
8. Honesty and trust- it takes courage to tell the truth as well as trust. Truth is always uncovered in the outcome. Trust is earned. Retain both honesty and trust and friends will be numerous.
Character development and happiness is doing our part of building the kingdom of God. Prepare for and avoid family problems with these resources: Family Home Evening and our Prophets counsel:
"Most earnestly and urgently we call upon parents to assume their full responsibility for teaching and living the gospel in the home. "Families will be blessed. There will be better feelings between husband and wife, between parents and children, and among children. In such homes the Spirit of the Lord will be made manifest." 1967, Pres. David O McKay
"Do you spend as much time making your family and home successful as you do in pursuing social and professional success? Are you devoting your best creative energy to the most important unit in society--the family. 1973, Pres. Harold B. Lee:
Fathers and mothers teach your (children)the words of God...If the Saints( you) obey this counsel, we promise that great blessings will result. Love at home and obedience to parents will increase, faith will be developed in the hearts of the youth of Israel, and they will gain power to combat the evil influences and temptations which beset them.'’
Our Prophet Joseph Smith said, "Happiness(Joy) is the object and design of our existence; and will be the end thereof, if we pursue the path that leads to it; and this path is virtue, uprightness, faithfulness, holiness, and keeping all the commandments of God. But we cannot keep all the commandments without first knowing them, and we cannot expect to know all, or more than we now know unless we comply with or keep those we have already received." (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Company, 1976], pp. 15556.)
President David O. McKay -"Parenthood ... should be held as a sacred obligation. There is something in the depths of the human soul which revolts against neglectful parenthood. God has implanted deep in the souls of parents the truth that they cannot shirk their responsibility to protect childhood and youth.
In closing, let’s each be grateful for the sacrifices others have made.
Let’s strengthen and build bridges of loving relationships at home
1. fortify our personal parental bonds with our children likewise learn more effective parenting skills.
2. improve each child’s social competencies and school performance as well as reduce any problematic behaviors, delinquency, and alcohol and drug abuse as well as cut child abuse.
We can cultivate peace by honoring one another. Be known and shown a person filled with love of God, who is anxious to bless others. In the name of Jesus Christ – amen!

Joyce Ingerson


“A Home as A Temple”

cji
6/20/11

Without confusion certain
what is our home to be
seeking what it is likened
thus Heavenly Father’s plan
prepared from the beginning
as the one building within
internal love and insight
for first our home is in us;

Therefore a Temple thus
a body filled with light
found with no lingering sin
Plan of Salvation winning
generations able to span
then to our room likened
order, virtue all able to see
when found a sheer curtain!

Leaving our personal room
opening our home around
fresh painted and clean
neatness and completeness
quiet with a sure spirit;

Others then able to inhabit
filled with love and sweetness
in our earthly home found
and our earthly family bloom!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

“Keys”

“Keys”

cji
6/19/11

Finding doors locked
windows shuttered
entry ways blocked
unable to enter in
needing to find keys
or one able to unlock
for wanting within
truth able to define
realms pure divine
each Sabbath Day
rescued from the world
unlocking the doors
opening the windows
unblocking entry ways
into wisdoms light
having found the keys!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 18, 2011

“The Bear”

“The Bear”
(Happy Birthday
Marc-Charles)

cji
6/18/11

Slumbering in the Winter
active in the Summer
berries and sweet honey
salmon and other fish
wandering in wilderness
shaking trees and earth
blocking and fighting all
traditions seen to fall
ever since infant birth
without any bitterness
all in his path to whish
with disposition sunny
hearing only his drummer
but to others a splinter!

Happy Birthday my son
how much we love you
understanding so much
loving all you touch
knowing you as we do
Father’s will to be done!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 17, 2011

“If You’ve the Time”

“If You’ve the Time”

cji
6/18/11

Yesterday to remember
years also gone bye
generations passed away
cemeteries marking some
who’ve paid the price
freedom demands still;

If you’ve the time or will
knowing who paid thrice
future events yet to come
marking always this day
yesterdays to remember;

Family, nation and life
wounded or in death
soldiers of wars ago
needing time to know
amid hurrying crowds;

Bounded in shrouds
never more to grow
their candles aglow
without any breath
family, nation or life!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

“Happy You’re Here”

“Happy You’re Here”

cji
6/17/11

Friends greeting each
finding words to share
voices excitingly reach
old friends who care;

Happy you’re here
smiles of quietness
tears frequent sear
hearts in heaviness;

Memories of the past
war stories to share
old friendships last
with those who care;

Reflections to remind
each other to cheer
relaxing now to unwind
so happy you’re here!



Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 15, 2011

“Demanding”

“Demanding”

cji
6/16/11

Self sacrifice to be
self discipline to see
each is demanding
neither demeaning;

Selfishness allowed
arrogance enjoyed
neither demanding
each is demeaning;

Which is the choice
we’ve already made
what’s demanding
or found demeaning?

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 14, 2011

“Fully”



“Fully”

cji
6/15/11

Wanting all to be had
yet only tapping surface
mice and rats in the hold
water rising from within
thus unto the decks run
a home once now gone
soon under the water
looking around in fear
wanting all to be had
left to fight for some air
can it be applied to us
ignoring the fully all
substituting a surface
for having depth alone!



Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 13, 2011

“Banners”

“Banners”

cji
6/14/11

The early days of war
parades and singing
sending youth to battles
under the banners of joy
yet disguised is death
greed of many others
power and wealthy guile
so hidden in the parade
snappy new uniforms
smiling faces and laughter
somberly to change quick
as the banners rip
aging takes a new pace
youth no longer found
hardened men/women
lonely families at home
distraught at messages
folded flags to enclose
shrouds of thousands
never to again see
banners waving proudly
parades and singing
the early days of war!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 12, 2011

“Eternal”

“Eternal”

cji
6/13/11

Life is about the eternal
husband and wife forever
without end or divorce
going on and on and on
to be a family forever
in virtue able to rejoice
ties never ever to sever
kept within life’s journal;

Thus the Priesthood here
Malachi to be fulfilled
woman and man as one
ordained by Father/Son
all opposition stilled
sealing has been done
all of heaven is trilled
when the veil is sheer;

June 13, 1975 the day
Washington DC Temple
Joyce and Charles Ingerson
Sealed time and all eternity
if worthy to thus endure
a marriage fresh and pure
for this we always pray!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

“A High Price”

“A High Price”

cji
6/13/11

Most without any clue
the price of freedom paid
foundations already laid
with Babylon to rule;

Trashy songs and dance
trendy clothes or a lack
without goals or a track
without a sideward glance;

Men who now should age
women never to marry
grandfathers never to be
only death’s shroud to see
or another’s name to carry
for their life’s last page;

Too many gone so young
other’s of a middle years
war knows no limitations
and has no imitations
just so many with tears
who’s song now sung;

A high price was the cost
war after war after war
endless in their duration
counting coup one by one;

Never knowing who’s won
seeking freedom as a nation
legends, heroes and lore
known mostly in lives lost;

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 11, 2011

“Everyone Leaves”

“Everyone Leaves”

cji
6/12/11

Lest we pretend to be
innocent and naive
in each person’s life
at some point in time
there’s a short line
when found in strife
foolishness to believe
and blindness to see;

At some point ahead
everyone leaves away
gone from one’s sight
left without a feeling
as shadows stealing
into the darkest night
none found to stay
our moment of dread;

Even for the Savior too
found alone on a cross
that moment left without
to His Father to shout
of this tremendous loss
are we more to view?

Each Sabbath Day know
when we’re found alone
wondering where to turn
shedding all our coldness
seeking truth in boldness
this we’ve got to learn
the Savior for us did atone
we in wisdom then grow!

Copyright © 2011 – cji


“As One Will”



“As One Will”

cji
6/12/11

Doesn’t matter the past
beaten, bruised, alone
some lie buried in pity
some deny what’s good
some ask for sympathy
some demand from all
many blame others
many cry of foul/unfair
many seek revenge
yet it’s as one will
to decide to live alive
chasing new dreams
replacing the bad past
with the good future
knowing it’s the present
where one can decide
to live or to die alone
to give and thus share
to be passionate alert
learning to become more
learning to share all
discerning of the what
to become as one will!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

Sung-bong Choi
(if you don’t know him
you should)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BewknNW2b8Y

“To Share”

“To Share”

cji
6/12/11

Think upon this thought
‘Pure Religion James 1;27’
wondering who can not
keep such a command
simple, sure, and pure
each and everyone
professing a religion
giving of their time
talents and in service
remembering others
unselfishly to share!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

“Perfection*”



“Perfection*”

cji
6/11/11

Some struggle and strain
to be but only perfect
dotting every ‘I’ to be done
crossing every ‘t’ as well
no mistakes to be found
as in all make believe
to be so humble to know
yet most all fail always
unable to achieve in life
what eludes all who try
but unknown to many
only two things perfect
which man/woman do
but who really cares
to know such simplicity?

Copyright © 2011 – cji

*Hugh Nibley – “Men and women try at everything for perfection – unable to ever achieve – there are but two things in this life one can do perfectly, repentance and forgiveness.”

June 9, 2011

“Self Deluded”

“Self Deluded”

cji
6/10/11

Grandeur of stature
making big of small
knowledge without
context confused
self deluded found
within thus bound
truth is refused
louder one to shout
contention to call
conceit to fracture!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 8, 2011

“Small Steps”

“Small Steps”

cji
6/9/11

Tracking our lives
each leaving tracks
first rolling/crawling
then able to stand
life’s early demand
often times falling
slipping into cracks
all part of our lives;

We take small steps
into unknown spheres
guided if we’re willing
our missions filling
removing all fears
taking small steps!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 7, 2011

“Night Rains”

“Night Rains”

cji
6/8/11

Hovering low clouds
drizzling slow and fast
sometimes a downpour
dampening all of sound
animals in their dens
writers taking up pens
inspirations thus found
freezing sometimes hoar
marking warriors past
wrapped in their shrouds;

Night rains reminding each
events schools do not teach
involving darkness to reach
nightmares dreams breach
becoming hosts to leech
eagles lonely above screech
forming new words of speech
night rains hiding us each!



Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 6, 2011

“Savored Sunlight”



“Savored Sunlight”

cji
6/7/11

Warm rays of the sun
embedded deep in trees
day after day after year
sometimes hundreds
oak, pine, willow, maple
all kinds and shapes
being stored as if canned
waiting for future time
when once more used
giving off a flamed heat
savored sunlight again
only from a fires flame!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 5, 2011

“Swallowing Water”

“Swallowing Water”

cji
6/6/2011
(June 6, 1944)

(Prelude:

Ships falling far behind
landing crafts to the beach
bullets clinging in the air
calling us to the shore;

Yet blackness and sweats
nightmares called dreams
entering water churning
ever forward to the shore!)

Struggling in the waters
snipers on the far beach
gasping for breath/safety
ever toward to the shore;

Crossing barricades wires
pushing fallen comrades
calling for the medics
ever forward to the shore;

Praying aloud and soft
needing a miracle of love
prayers of those far away
ever closer to the shore;

Some now on the beach
forming up into ranks
following inland with others
ever closer to the shore;

Tanks now landing too
returning fire as possible
slipping in the water’s depth
ever closer to the shore;

Swallowing water salty
on hands and knees
then again to stand/walk
now here upon the shore;

D-Day called by some
minding one of carnage
part of war’s own hell
now here upon the shore;

Found coughing harsh
sputtering up the surf
as always and forever
now here upon the shore!

(Addendum:

Friends and loved ones
prayers heard far away
soldiers lost into old dreams
screaming for another’s aid
now forever upon the shore!)

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 4, 2011

“Running in Deep Snow”

“Running in Deep Snow”

cji
6/5/11

Hip deep struggling ahead
running trying not to sweat
freezing just not quite yet
no lights to be seen a far
a dull glistening of snow
wherever one does look
now up to the waist found
running in deep snow
seeking to find one’s home
yet now ever so all alone
once all about was show
bright light’s upon ground
finding all was mistook
like wishing upon a star
prayer forsaken in a bet
no Sabbath Day to fret
no real truth to thread;

Yet others going bye fast
one here another there
once thought crazy/insane
silly shoes upon their feet
running in deep snow
yet to a top and not within
avoiding appearance of sin
within the Gospel to grow
feeling its warmth/heat
prompting ever so plain
a Sabbath Day to share
truths eternal to last!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

HT'ing and VT'ing June 2011



Realize already sent a message – but now the LDS.org site has this month up and able to post – so here it is - chuck



The Blessings of Tithing
By President Henry B. Eyring First Counselor in the First Presidency

God’s purpose in giving us commandments is to bless us. He wants to give us eternal life, the greatest of all His gifts (see D&C 14:7). To receive the gift of living with Him forever in families in the celestial kingdom, we must be able to live the laws of that kingdom (see D&C 88:22).

He has given us commandments in this life to help us develop that capacity. The law of tithing is one of those preparatory commandments. The law is that we give to the Lord one-tenth of all our income. It is simple enough that even a child can understand it. I have seen children hand a bishop a tithing envelope that contains one-tenth of the coins they earned.

One of the blessings that comes from paying a full tithing is developing faith to live an even higher law. To live in the celestial kingdom, we must live the law of consecration. There we must be able to feel that all we are and all we have belong to God.

There are at least three ways that paying a full tithe in this life prepares us to feel what we need to feel to receive the gift of eternal life.

First, when we pay our tithes to the Church, our Heavenly Father pours out blessings upon us. Anyone who has consistently paid a full tithe knows that is true. The blessings are sometimes spiritual and sometimes temporal. They are given in the Lord’s time and according to what He knows is best for us.

As those blessings come, our faith is increased that God is the source of everything that is good in our lives. It becomes easier to see that consecration simply recognizes the truth that all of God’s creations are His. It makes us feel gratitude that He asks only 10 percent of what He has already given us. So we are better prepared to live the law of consecration when it will be asked of us.

Second, all of us who have paid a consistent full tithe feel greater confidence in asking God for what we and our families need. He has promised blessings even greater than we can receive when we have been faithful to our covenant to pay our tithes (see Malachi 3:10). So one of the great blessings of tithing is confidence in what the future holds. Whatever our circumstances may be, things will work out for the best. As we keep our promises, He will keep His. A feeling of peace is one of the great blessings of paying a full tithe. Those who have kept the commandment of tithing can testify that the blessing of peace is real and precious.

Third, those who pay tithing feel an increase in their love of God and of all God’s children. That increase of love comes from understanding how the Father uses the tithes we offer to bless people in this world and for eternity.
Through His authorized servants, He expends the tithes with great care. The tithe payer helps the Lord build temples, where families can be sealed forever. The tithe payer helps Him send the gospel to people everywhere. The tithe payer helps Him relieve hunger and suffering in His own way through His servants. Any of those servants can tell you how love increased because tithing was used to bless people. And so can the faithful tithe payer.

Tithing settlement is months in the future. I pray that you and your family will begin now to plan and prepare to qualify for the blessings that God pours out on all those who can declare to Him that they are full-tithe payers.

Teaching from This Message

Sometimes the best way to teach a certain principle is to demonstrate it (see Teaching, No Greater Call [1999], 164). Consider asking a family member to demonstrate what one-tenth represents. He or she could demonstrate it by separating one item from a group of 10 items. To conclude, consider inviting a family member to show how to fill out a tithing slip.

“Those you teach will benefit from each other’s participation” (Teaching, No Greater Call, 63). Invite family members to share what they believe President Eyring means by the statement “feel what we need to feel to receive the gift of eternal life.” Consider discussing the three ways in which paying tithing prepares us to feel what we need to feel to receive God’s blessings.

Youth
Enough Money
By Fabiano dos Santos da Silva
I met the missionaries when I was 17. At that time my older brother and I lived together. Our mother had passed away the year before, and life was difficult. When the missionaries taught me, I could see that this Church was the church I had always sought. But the influence of my friends prevented me from going to church on Sundays.
One time I went to a Church activity during the week. Seeing all the young people laughing and playing brought me great joy. The missionaries, with the youth, took that opportunity to teach me a gospel lesson, and I felt so good I resolved to be baptized.

But even after I joined the Church, I faced challenges. I was the only member of the Church in that part of town and lived far away from the meetinghouse. My nonmember friends no longer wanted anything to do with me. When I felt alone, I prayed and felt the love of the Lord.
Each month, I received a small allotment of money from a fund my mother left. It was difficult to sustain myself with so little money. But I determined to be obedient. I paid tithing and also had to pay for transportation to seminary and Sunday meetings. I didn’t understand how, but at the end of the month, I found that there had been enough money to do it all.

I know that I have been blessed by paying tithing. Obeying this commandment helped me gain a stronger testimony, serve a mission, and recognize blessings so I can strengthen new members who are facing challenges.

Children
I Can Pay Tithing
Paying tithing means giving 10 percent of what we earn to the Lord. Look at these three children doing jobs. On the first blank space by each drawing, write how much you think each child might earn for the job. On the second line, write how much the tithing would be.
(click to view larger)
Bonus question: Which of these tithe payers would receive the most blessings? (Hint: See the last paragraph of President Eyring’s message.)
“A 10th”

cji
6/5/11

Seemingly able to do always
giving Father the first 10th
for knowing all is his forever
allowing us but a stewardship
may we be found honorable
in accounting His eternal trust
whatever we’re found so doing
giving all if but asked us to do
yet instead He asks, ‘A 10th!’

Copyright © 2011 – cji





Visiting Teaching: Strengthening Families through Temporal Self-Reliance

Study this material and, as appropriate, discuss it with the sisters you visit. Use the questions to help you strengthen your sisters and to make Relief Society an active part of your own life.

Developing self-reliance—the ability to care for ourselves and our families—is the responsibility of every sister. We become self-reliant as we learn to love work, as we seek inspiration to find the best ways to provide for ourselves, and as we work with family members to meet basic needs.
When we are self-reliant, we use our blessings and resources to prepare for and avoid problems. Self-reliance, however, is enhanced as we pray for the courage to meet with faith the challenges that will surely come. Self-reliance also enables us to keep our covenant to care for others.
In Relief Society, we are taught self-reliance principles and skills. Sisters can learn about budgeting, debt relief, employment qualifications, the scriptures and the gospel, teaching others to read and learn, technology, physical health, fitness, addiction prevention and recovery, social and emotional health, preventing illness, gardening, food production and storage, emergency preparedness, and many other things that will help us become self-reliant. 1
Julie B. Beck, Relief Society general president, explains that “providing for ourselves and others is evidence that we are disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ. … When [my mother-in-law] passed away suddenly last year, she left evidence of her self-reliant life. She had a current temple recommend and well-used scriptures and gospel study manuals. We lovingly divided up the pots, pans, and dishes with which she had prepared thousands of meals. She left us quilts she had made from old clothing. She believed in the old adage ‘Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.’ We saw the supply of food she had grown, preserved, and stored. Particularly touching were her little account books in which she faithfully recorded her expenditures over many years. Because she lived providently, she left some money she had saved for emergencies, and she left no debts! Most importantly, she had taught and inspired many others with the skills she had acquired during her faithful life.” 2

From the Scriptures
John 13:34–35; James 1:27; Mosiah 4:26; Doctrine and Covenants 29:34–35; 38:30; 44:6

From Our History
Relief Society sisters have always participated in the work of saving souls temporally and spiritually. Each week as the Female Relief Society of Nauvoo met, sisters reported on people in need. Donations of money, goods, talents, and time were dispersed to relieve the needy. This foundational work of relieving suffering has continued to be the work of Relief Society through the generations.
When the Saints arrived in the Salt Lake Valley, President Brigham Young (1801–77) counseled sisters to assist those in need and to learn skills that would allow them to take care of themselves. He said, “Learn to sustain yourselves; lay up grain and flour, and save it against a day of scarcity.” 3 Under the direction of the priesthood, Relief Society continues to teach self-reliance, to safeguard the family, and to encourage personal righteousness and acts of charity, the pure love of Christ.

What Can I Do?
How can I help my sisters and their families improve in temporal self-reliance?
How can I improve my own temporal self-reliance?
For more information, go to http://www.reliefsociety.lds.org/.
“Doing is the Blessing”

cji
6/5/11

Many just sit and wait
the train having left
only but a little late
so let us find the way
the first is last/last first
doing is the blessing
repenting and engaging
we do all we’re able to do
always to the best we can
helping others and self
family affairs in order
having learned at first
doing is the blessing
we can catch the train!

Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 3, 2011

“Separately”

“Separately”

cji
6/4/11

To make become one
isolation and aloneness
forgetting all others
separately to prepare
but for what and why
no reason or rhyme;

Yet somewhere known
more is to be found
but there’s a need
blinders to be lost
to great their cost
understanding to heed
with others to be bound
into a family grown;

Separately all will fail
wasted the Atonement
empty an eternal trail
without an Endowment!


Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 2, 2011

“Dangerous”

“Dangerous”

cji
6/3/11

Never taken for granted
while hiding in the dark
sneaking into corners
frightening all those about
to be thought dangerous
regarded as being mean
scaring all those worldly
yet no more than a wisp
smoke without any fire
beguiling with the mirrors
bright lights and darkness
yet without substance
only that of a false man
without any ownership
just a fallen angel
from long ago yet today
for men/women follow
like the sheep they think
undiscerning the voice
which is that of Satan
and not that of the Savior!



Copyright © 2011 – cji

June 1, 2011

“Tracks”

“Tracks”

cji
6/2/11

Small prints in the sand
winds making them lost
sometimes only an edge
a smudge or a small hair
slowly and carefully too
tracks telling a story true
some hard to read but fair
separating with a wedge
a man/woman’s cost
never easy to understand!

Copyright © 2011 – cji