“If
Ye Love Me, Keep My Commandments”
By Carole M. Stephens
First Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency
God’s commandments are a manifestation
of His love for us, and obedience to His commandments is an expression of our
love for Him.
When
our oldest daughter, Jen, brought her third daughter home from the hospital, I
went to her home to help. After getting her oldest daughter off to school, we
decided that what Jen needed most was rest. So the best help I could give was
to take her daughter Chloe home with me so her mom and new baby sister could
have some quiet time.
I
buckled Chloe into her car seat, secured my own seat belt, and drove out of
their driveway. However, before we reached the end of the street, Chloe had
unbuckled her seat belt and was standing up, looking over my shoulder, and
talking to me! I pulled the car over to the side of the road, got out, and
buckled her back into her seat.
We
started again but had gone only a short distance when she was out of her seat
again. I repeated the same steps, but this time before I could even get back
into the car and fasten my own seat belt, Chloe was already standing up!
I found
myself sitting in a car, parked on the side of the road, having a power
struggle with a three-year-old. And she was winning!
I used
every idea I could think of to convince her that remaining fastened in her car
seat was a good idea. She was not convinced! I finally decided to try the
if/then approach.
I said,
“Chloe, if you will stay buckled in your car seat, then as soon as we get to
Grandma’s house, we can play with play dough.”
No
response.
“Chloe,
if you will stay buckled in your seat, then we can make bread when we get to
Grandma’s house.”
No
response.
I tried
again. “Chloe, if you will stay buckled in your seat, then we can stop at the
market for a treat!”
After
three attempts, I realized this was a futile exercise. She was determined, and
no amount of if/then was enough to convince her to remain fastened in her seat.
We
couldn’t spend the day sitting on the edge of the road, but I wanted to be
obedient to the law, and it wasn’t safe to drive with Chloe standing up. I
offered a silent prayer and heard the Spirit whisper, “Teach her.”
I
turned to face her and pulled my seat belt away from my body so she could see
it. I said, “Chloe, I am wearing this seat belt because it will protect me. But
you aren’t wearing your seat belt, and you won’t be safe. And I will be so sad
if you get hurt.”
She
looked at me; I could almost see the wheels turning in her little mind as I
waited anxiously for her response. Finally, her big blue eyes brightened, and
she said, “Grandma, you want me to wear my seat belt because you love me!”
The
Spirit filled the car as I expressed my love for this precious little girl. I
didn’t want to lose that feeling, but I knew I had an opportunity, so I got out
and secured her in her car seat. Then I asked, “Chloe, will you please stay in
your car seat?” And she did—all the way to the market for a treat! And she
stayed buckled all the way from the market to my home, where we made bread and
played with play dough because Chloe did not forget!
As I
drove back onto the road that day, a scripture filled my mind: “If ye love me,
keep my commandments.”1 We have rules to teach, guide, and protect
children. Why? Because of the great love we have for them. But until Chloe
understood that my desire for her to remain securely fastened in her car seat
was because of my love for her, she was unwilling to submit to what she
considered a restriction. She felt her seat belt limited her freedom.
Like
Chloe, we can choose to see commandments as limitations. We may feel at times
that God’s laws restrict our personal freedom, take from us our agency, and
limit our growth. But as we seek for greater understanding, as we allow our
Father to teach us, we will begin to see that His laws are a manifestation of
His love for us and obedience to His laws is an expression of our love for Him.
If you
find yourself figuratively parked on the side of the road, can I suggest a few
principles that, if followed, will help you get safely back on “the road of
faith and obedience”?2
First,
trust God. Trust
in His eternal plan for you. Each of us is “a beloved spirit son or daughter of
heavenly parents.” Their love for us is apparent in commandments. Commandments
are vital instructions to teach, guide, and protect us as we “gain earthly
experience.”3
In the
“premortal realm” we used our agency to accept God’s plan,4 and we learned that obedience to God’s
eternal law was vital to our success in His plan. Scriptures teach, “There is a
law, irrevocably decreed in heaven before the foundations of this world, upon
which all blessings are predicated.”5 If we obey the law, we receive the
blessings.
Even
with all of the mistakes, opposition, and learning that accompany our mortal
experience, God never loses sight of our eternal potential, even when we do. We
can trust Him “because God wants His children back.”6 And He has provided a way through the
Atonement of His Son, Jesus Christ. The Atonement
“is the core of the plan of salvation.”7
Second,
trust Jesus. The
ultimate expression of obedience and love is the Atonement of Jesus Christ.
Submitting Himself to the Father’s will, He gave His life for us. He said, “If
ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my
Father’s commandments, and abide in his love.”8
Jesus
also taught:
“Love
the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy
mind.
“This
is the first and great commandment.
Each
Sunday we have the opportunity to ponder and remember our Savior’s pure love as
we partake of the emblems of His infinite Atonement. During thesacrament, I watch as hands
and arms extend to pass the bread and the water. As I extend my arm and
partake, I covenant that I am willing to take His name upon me, always remember
Him, and keep His commandments. And He promises “that [we] may always have his
Spirit to be with [us].”10
Third,
trust the whisperings of the Spirit. Remember during my experience with Chloe
that the Spirit whispered a scripture to me? It is in John 14:15: “If ye love me, keep my commandments.”
And these important verses follow:
“I will
pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide
with you for ever;
“Even
the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not,
neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in
you.”11
Every
worthy, confirmed member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has
the right to the companionship of the Holy Ghost. Fasting, prayer,
scripture study, and obedience greatly enhance our ability to hear and feel the
promptings of the Spirit.
When
your mind is filled with doubt and confusion, the Father and the Son will send
the Holy Ghost to warn you and guide you safely through the dangers of this
mortal journey. He will help you remember, comfort you, and fill you “with hope
and perfect love.”12
Fourth,
trust the counsel of living prophets. Our Father has provided a way for us to
hear His word and know His law through His prophets. The Lord declared, “My
word shall … all be fulfilled, whether by mine own voice or by the voice of my
servants, it is the same.”13
Recently,
living prophets have counseled us to “remember the sabbath day, to keep it
holy,”14 and to live the law of the fast. Obedience
to this prophetic counsel provides a way for us to be obedient to God’s
commandment to love Him and our neighbor as we increase our faith in Jesus
Christ and extend our hand to love and care for others.15
There
is safety in following the word of the Lord through His prophets. God called
President Thomas S. Monson, the counselors in the First Presidency, and
the members of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles as prophets, seers, and
revelators. In this world of increasing fear, distraction, adversity, and anger,
we can look to them to see how disciples of Jesus Christ—filled with
charity—look, sound, and react to issues that could be divisive. They testify
of Jesus Christ and respond with charity, the pure love of Jesus Christ, whose
witnesses they are.
After my
experience with Chloe, I searched the scriptures for verses that mentioned
commandments and love. I found many. Each of these verses reminds us that His
commandments are a manifestation of His love for us and obedience to His
commandments is an expression of our love for Him.
I
testify that as we trust God, our Eternal Father; trust His Son, Jesus Christ,
and exercise faith in His Atonement; trust the whisperings of the Spirit; and
trust the counsel of living prophets, we will find our way off the edge of the
road and continue safely—not just enduring but finding joy in our journey home.
In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
“Trust in Truth”
cji
11/1/15
Many people trust in
friends
others in the wiles
of the world
some trust not in
anything at all
but it’s so important
to trust truth
therefore to learn to
discern truth
one must hear the
Spirits call
staying away from the
world
knowing those Father
sends!
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cji
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