“As I Have Loved You”
Some years ago a friend named Louis
related to me a tender account about his gentle, soft-spoken mother. When she
passed away, she left to her sons and daughters no fortune of finance but
rather a heritage of wealth in example, in sacrifice, in obedience.
After the funeral eulogies had been spoken and the sad trek to
the cemetery had been made, the grown family sorted through the meager possessions
the mother had left. Among them, Louis discovered a note and a key. The note
instructed: “In the corner bedroom, in the bottom drawer of my dresser, is a
tiny box. It contains the treasure of my heart. This key will open the box.”
All wondered what their mother had of
sufficient value to place under lock and key.
The box was removed from its resting
place and opened carefully with the aid of the key. As Louis and the others
examined the contents of the box, they found an individual photo of each child,
with the child’s name and birth date. Louis then pulled out a homemade
valentine. In crude, childlike penmanship, which he recognized as his own, he
read the words he had written 60 years before: “Dear Mother, I love you.”
Hearts were tender, voices soft, and
eyes moist. Mother’s treasure was her eternal family. Its strength rested on
the bedrock foundation of “I love you.”
In today’s world, nowhere is that
bedrock foundation of love needed more than in the home. And nowhere should the
world find a better example of that foundation than in the homes of Latter-day
Saints who have made love the heart of their family life.
To those of us who profess to be disciples of the Savior Jesus
Christ, He gave this far-reaching instruction:
“A new commandment I give unto you,
That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.
“By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have
love one to another.”1
If we would keep the commandment to
love one another, we must treat each other with compassion and respect, showing
our love in day-to-day interactions. Love offers a kind word, a patient
response, a selfless act, an understanding ear, a forgiving heart. In all our
associations, these and other such acts help make evident the love in our
hearts.
President Gordon B. Hinckley (1910–2008) observed: “Love …
is the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Yet it is more than the end of
the rainbow. Love is at the beginning also, and from it springs the beauty that
arches across the sky on a stormy day. Love is the security for which children
weep, the yearning of youth, the adhesive that binds marriage, and the
lubricant that prevents devastating friction in the home; it is the peace of
old age, the sunlight of hope shining through death. How rich are those who
enjoy it in their associations with family, friends, church, and neighbors.”2
Love is the very essence of the gospel,
the noblest attribute of the human soul. Love is the remedy for ailing
families, ill communities, and sick nations. Love is a smile, a wave, a kind
comment, and a compliment. Love is sacrifice, service, and selflessness.
Husbands, love your wives. Treat them
with dignity and appreciation. Sisters, love your husbands. Treat them with
honor and encouragement.
Parents, love your children. Pray for them, teach them, and
testify to them. Children, love your parents. Show them respect, gratitude,
and obedience.
Without the pure love of Christ, Mormon counsels, “[we] are
nothing.”3 My prayer is that we may follow
Mormon’s counsel to “pray unto the Father with all the energy of heart, that
[we] may be filled with this love, which he hath bestowed upon all who are true
followers of his Son, Jesus Christ; that [we] may become the sons of God; that
when he shall appear we shall be like him.”4
Teaching from This Message
President Monson teaches us the
importance of demonstrating true Christlike love, particularly in the home.
Consider what you can do to show love to those you teach. You could also ask
them to discuss ways they can show more love to one another. You might
encourage them to select one of those ideas and make plans to achieve it as a family. For instance, family members could offer a
secret act of service to another family member each week. You might ask them to
later reflect on how striving to reach their goal increased the love in their
home.
Youth
Praying for Peace
By Sarah T.
The author lives in Arizona, USA.
My parents often attended meetings
after church, and I would watch my three younger brothers and help them make
lunch—though they were often short-tempered and hungry. Usually if they started
fighting, I could solve the small problem quickly. But sometimes it was hard to
make peace once a fight had started because I’d get agitated.
One afternoon, my brothers were having
an especially hard time getting along. I found that my efforts to make peace
only made things worse because I was upset. So I just made my own lunch and
stopped talking. Finally, I announced, “I’m going to pray. Can we please be
quiet for a minute?” Once they settled down, I asked for a blessing on the
food. Before I closed the prayer, I added, “And please help us to be
peacemakers.”
At first, they seemed not to hear and
began fighting again. I was annoyed but knew I needed to be as loving and calm
as I could be because I’d just prayed for peace. After a minute, I felt very
calm. I ate without saying anything, and the boys eventually stopped fighting.
I realized the peace I felt was an answer to a simple prayer. I had prayed to
be a peacemaker, and my Heavenly Father had helped me stay calm when it was so
tempting to yell. I know that He can truly give us peace.
Children
True Treasure
President Monson tells a story about a
mother who had a special treasure box. When her children opened the box, they
found pictures of themselves. The mother’s treasure was her family!
True treasure isn’t gold or jewels—it’s
the people you love. Whom do you love? Draw a picture of them or write their
names in the treasure box.
“Peacemakers Example
Love”
cji
2/1/17
How much can we love
another
needed to be obedient
to Father
‘love thy neighbor as
thyself’
are we found so to be
loving
as the Father and the
Son to us
are we the
peacemakers to be
giving examples of
love/service
caring enough for
others to share
our best behavior and
example
staying calm when
chaos is about
truly keeping the
admonition
‘as I have loved you
– love one
another’ always and
forever!
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© 2017 – cji
